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Where ever we go we see love. You can’t escape it, it’s as if everything is saturated in it. 80% of what’s projected from the television screens deals with the topic. It seems to be especially true in North America. Oprah will be pushing another romantic novel and on the next channel some guy with super powers will be flying off with his gorgeous girlfriend. We see the same trend on Amazon. Many book covers are sporting pictures of roses, sunrises and sunsets promising the reader a roller coaster of romantic emotions or even advice on how to get over an ex. In magazines celebrities are hunted down by paparazzi. Most of these celebrities took part in a film that was about love.

It’s so evident that it’s not even worth mentioning. We are clearly preoccupied by romance.

Even though it sounds bad, I think it’s a good thing. The topic should be discussed more in industrialized countries like The Russian federation and Netherlands. These countries see a diminishing population. There, a lot of people are more preoccupied with their careers and less with the family.

T.V praises money and riches and pays less attention to love.

There are still plenty of love shows and other romantic media. Too bad that many of these shows display romance in a negative light. They show cheating adventures of a husband as if it was the norm. Why not show a faithful husband that comes home to spend time with his kids. We see the same trend in printed media. There are now more and more books that explain how to get over a bad breakup. Books that talk about how to get your ex boyfriend back are rare and far between (they prefer to talk about cheating lovers instead). In my humble opinion those things will do more good than harm.

In some states there are a divorce rates of 40%. When will this end? Those are mind blowing statistics! It is almost as if people give up too easily on their current relationships. May be they should stick around and work out the differences instead. Even if one of the union members is cheating, doesn’t mean the couple has to breakup. What caused this infidelity? Is it something that husband did not do? May be this was caused by a miscommunication between husband and wife. In many cases it is a small difference that makes a big change. They say that number one reason that makes wives leave is the lack of attention on behalf of the husband.

Therefore it becomes clear that we should value our partner. Try to be more selfless and your partner will do the same. Let’s be tolerant to each other. Let’s choose affection instead of resentment. For we shall pass here but once.