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There isn’t a single man around who would not love to have the secret to getting a girl to fall for them quickly and easily, and would love to know how to approach a girl in a way that gets results. Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a book that was guaranteed to ensure that you knew clearly how to approach a girl with consistent positive results.

Well, that is not really the case (aside of our recommendation on the right) because finding the best ways to impress a girl really depends on the girl herself. However, there are some things that you can do that nearly every girl likes, that will help you get the girl and keep her if you want too.

One of the key things you need to take on board is to be confident, not cocky. For whatever reason men seem to confuse the two and will often turn a girl off by being obnoxious rather than simply confident. So, what is the difference between the two? Well, a guy who is obnoxious will address a girl in a term like baby, or babe. Without even asking, an obnoxious guy will join a girl at a table and start talking, this is not confidence, this is simply being rude. Instead, if you want to convey confidence, then you should approach a girl while looking her directly in the eyes. Introduce yourself and ask if you can join her, dance, etc. whatever the situation dictates. Taking her by the lebow with your hand is OK, but don’t be too keen to hold her hand or put your arm around her. Guide, not pull. That is the guy who gets the girl!

If you want to be the guy who knows how to approach a girl in a way that gets results then after you have approached her and she is open to chatting to you, talk to her about her, when she asks about you share a little but don’t talk too much about yourself. Be clear - girls really like guys who make an effort to listen.

Try to work in a compliment about her eyes and lips. Get her to think about kissing, but don’t be crude. Leaping at her with a phrase like “I think you’re hot” is not going to win her over and she’s unlikely to stick around - you need to be a little more subtly along the lines like complimenting her smile - try to give her specific compliments that are less general and relate to her, so she knows you’re paying attention to only her.

Maybe you are not the guy who always gets the girl, however if you treat a woman like she is a person and not a piece of meat (or a contest to be won) you will be surprised at the level of attention that you receive from woman. She may not immediately tell you, if ever, but a woman wants to be sure that you really want them. Find the right words and use them and before you know it, you will get the girl.

Extract taken from full review and article at double your dating review